Funeral EtiquetteThroughout the world there is a verity of culture, customs and beliefs. Funeral Etiquette therefore has no hard and fast rules. The following information is offered merely as a guideline for what is generally accepted as funeral etiquette in various circumstances.
General guidelines for guests:1) Simple, brief, sincere expressions of sympathy are usually best.2) Avoid staring at the bereaved. Allow loved ones to grieve with dignity. 3) Before entering the house of worship, turn off cell phones, pagers, electronic games and other noise-making or distracting items. 4) Do not eat, drink or chew gum during the funeral service. 5) Do not converse with those around you during the funeral service. 6) Listen respectfully to those who are speaking. 7) Any disruptive children should be removed immediately. 8) Allow family and close friends to sit in the front few rows. Business acquaintances and those who weren't very close to the deceased should sit in the rear. 9) Show respect when picking out your funeral attire. Men: Wear a conservative suit or dress-clothes that are dark. Avoid casual clothing! Women: A black dress is not necessary. But avoid wearing colorful or provocative styles. Remember it is a respectful solemn occasion. General guidelines for the bereaved:1) After the burial, all in attendance are invited to a reception. The reception could be held in the home of a family member or loved one, or in a restaurant.2) The bereaved should acknowledge gifts and acts of kindness with a thank you note, or perhaps thanking them in person. This can be done within a couple of months of the funeral.
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